For those navigating a divorce, the emotional toll can be severe. With legal issues, tiring back and forths and frequent disagreements, it can feel somewhat overwhelming.
Unfortunately, as well as affecting those in the process of separating, divorce often impacts the lives of family and loved ones. Among those most severely affected are children. Young minds often lack the experience and emotional intelligence required to comprehend the circumstances surrounding parents’ divorce; this can lead to issues regarding behaviour, self-esteem and social development.
For children of all ages, witnessing a divorce can impact all areas of their life, from friendships and social interactions to schooling and hobbies. Of course, this can be hugely detrimental to a young person’s education and mitigating this impact is always a priority.
Here at Richard and Lewis, we’re well-versed in all areas of divorce and fully understand the impact that separation can have on a child’s school and home life. Read on to discover the effects of divorce on young children’s education and how to reduce them.
Truancy & Behavioral Issues
First and foremost, a school is a place to learn and build a solid foundation before your child transitions to the adult world. For this reason, it is important that your divorce does not prevent them from attaining this. That said, children handle the process in different ways; many young people resort to bad behaviour and resist the structures that are in place, such as school.
Truancy and poor behaviour are often signs that a child feels insecure, neglected, or as if their feelings are not being taken into account. While this is a natural reaction, it is important that parents maintain open communication with their children. Ensuring that children, no matter their age, feel seen and understood is essential.
Friendships & Social Interaction
Gaining access to education and resources is, of course, the primary purpose of schooling, yet the social interactions and friendships that form are also invaluable. As mentioned above, divorce can cause children to withdraw from their families somewhat; ensuring that they are able to talk and meet with friends often helps them cope with the feelings of change and uncertainty that lie ahead.
Changing Schools
Finally, it is important to note the positive role that school can play during the divorce process. Often, educational establishments provide a sense of stability and structure during otherwise turbulent times. For these reasons, it is crucial that divorce causes minimal disruption to a child’s education.
If, for example, your child attends a private school, having to move to a different school can be incredibly upsetting and disruptive. Therefore, deciding how the fees will be paid is a vital part of the process. Equally, if your child attends a state school, ensuring that they do not move away from the catchment area is also incredibly important.
Divorce & Family Law Mediation From Richard & Lewis
Here at Richard and Lewis, we possess extensive experience in the field of family law, divorce and care. With a complete understanding of the impact that separation can have on children and their education, the importance of a smooth transition is unquestionable.
If you, or a loved one, are dealing with a difficult divorce, don’t hesitate to get in touch with a member of our team.
